Ladies/Men: Just Saying….
Ladies, stop objectifying yourself. If you’re showing your ass to get money and/or attention from men, you’re doing something wrong. Don’t allow your spiritual and intellectual self to sink so low. God did not put you on this planet to collect sticky one dollar bills or to have to have sex with men to get their attention. I have love for you and your struggle, just know that you really are worth so much more. You just haven’t believed it yet and you begin to treat yourself with the same low standards you’ve allowed people to treat you with.
Alternatively, men, if you are spending money to get a woman’s attention or showing off all your various and sundry pretty things like your nice car, your nice place, etc, you too, are doing something wrong. A girl/woman who is worth it will not care about any of those things, she will just want your respect, caring, and will want you to hold her hand. Corny but true. Know the real ones. They’re testing you right now to see if you’re real also by demanding respect and the right kind of attention from you. In turn, we’ll give you everything you want. Just treat us right first.